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T O P I C R E V I E WladybluefekmaefnlSibylYou expect him to forgive you for leaving him with no contact for two months, after which he is being spiteful, and yet YOU can't forgive HIM?He probably didn't even mean it but struck where he thought it would hurt the most because he was hurt and wanted you to hurt too.I also think you are being so incredibly selfish to be in a relationship while you are obsessing over someone else. How is that fair?tgemLadyblue, there is a thread in astrology 2.0 that you can read regarding signs of twinflames. What I will say is that if it's truly a TF relationship, then you will feel the need to forgive him no matter what he did. TF relationships are about unconditional love.SDragonThere's enough doubt, emotions and everything else without trying to label him as a twinflame or not - and truly, no one else will truly know anyway.The real choice is whether you are willing to risk getting hurt again. If you are and you both make changes so it doesn't happen again, then life goes on. If you can't and decide you'd rather 'try' again with someone else, then life goes on. If you vacillate and feel like you can't decide, then life goes on anyway.But sometimes the real answer is time... time for things to digest, time for people to grow, time for new experiences.RandallWelcome!Hera quote:Originally posted by SDragon:There's enough doubt, emotions and everything else without trying to label him as a twinflame or not - and truly, no one else will truly know anyway.The real choice is whether you are willing to risk getting hurt again. If you are and you both make changes so it doesn't happen again, then life goes on. If you can't and decide you'd rather 'try' again with someone else, then life goes on. If you vacillate and feel like you can't decide, then life goes on anyway.But sometimes the real answer is time... time for things to digest, time for people to grow, time for new experiences.I didn't catch your post, ladyblue, but I second what SDragon said. The only thing that validates a relationship is the feelings. RandallHope it works out.
He probably didn't even mean it but struck where he thought it would hurt the most because he was hurt and wanted you to hurt too.
I also think you are being so incredibly selfish to be in a relationship while you are obsessing over someone else. How is that fair?
The real choice is whether you are willing to risk getting hurt again. If you are and you both make changes so it doesn't happen again, then life goes on. If you can't and decide you'd rather 'try' again with someone else, then life goes on. If you vacillate and feel like you can't decide, then life goes on anyway.
But sometimes the real answer is time... time for things to digest, time for people to grow, time for new experiences.
quote:Originally posted by SDragon:There's enough doubt, emotions and everything else without trying to label him as a twinflame or not - and truly, no one else will truly know anyway.The real choice is whether you are willing to risk getting hurt again. If you are and you both make changes so it doesn't happen again, then life goes on. If you can't and decide you'd rather 'try' again with someone else, then life goes on. If you vacillate and feel like you can't decide, then life goes on anyway.But sometimes the real answer is time... time for things to digest, time for people to grow, time for new experiences.
I didn't catch your post, ladyblue, but I second what SDragon said. The only thing that validates a relationship is the feelings.
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